Admittedly, if you are thinking about lightening your hair; you are definitely positioning yourself up for a change in your life. Boredom coming from the reflection of the mirror can easily bring some dissatisfaction and discouragement. Ask yourself, what is the significance for thinking this way? One thing to consider is, you may admire that willowy blonde that walks by, but try as you could, you will not be able to look just like her. Your DNA is unique just as hers is and you do not need to copy anyone.
Here are a couple questions to ask yourself before you dive into the kingdom of blondes:
What true color is my hair now, and is it complimenting me or taking away from my looks?
What is the real reason, I have become so dissatisfied with my color?
Would blonde go with the color of my eyes and my skin?
Do I want a natural looking blonde?
Am I seeking to cover my natural color because I feel my gray is unbecoming?
Whatever the reason, it is a good idea to ask yourself some balanced questions. What does a good friend of yours say about your idea? Usually, they are our best critics and see you differently than you do yourself.
Blonde is not for everyone. It is amazing when I see someone who has been a blonde for years suddenly appear with a warm golden brown. The improved difference is quite striking; I have always wondered why they didn’t do that in the first place. But, there is an old saying “once a blonde, always a blonde,” and don’t you believe it for a second.
There are several reasons why some stay as blondes, and one is because of seeing themselves with the blonde color has become a habit. They tell me jokingly, “I don’t even know my natural color anymore.” That just happens to be the truth too. Blinded by this habit, they do not realize just how much prettier they would look if their hair matched their brows and eyes. What a difference that makes.
Many of the movie stars get away with dark eyes and blonde hair because of the entertaining they do that requires heavy make-up. This doesn’t make them more beautiful, classy or elegant than you, just more in the public eye. What kind of look are you searching for? Should you decide on a blonde, would it match the color of your eyes? Would it flow? Or, would it wash you out? Would you require more make-up than you are used to using, and if so; are you ready for this ritual every time you venture out?
If you have brown eyes there would definitely be the contrast with the blonde hair. There could be attractiveness with that difference; with a goodly amount of make-up. Brown eyes could look good with blonde if it has the right tones. If it is too pale yellowish, you will look just like everyone else. Depending on your skin tone a strawberry blonde or a neutral blonde could be your answer. Either way, you will have to get used to wearing a little bit moremake-up. Even with gray eyes, you need make-up. Frankly, I haven’t seen anyone who doesn’t need the improvement of some make-up on their face. Gray eyes need color and if you put a bland pale blonde next to them, it could wash you out. Everyone knows that blue and green eyes go hand in hand with the color of blonde.
If you are truly headstrong about going blonde, the best idea for you is to select a natural hair color. Take a visual survey as you go about doing your errands and at work today. Look at all those same color blondes. With a professional eye I can tell you, it is almost like wearing a uniform and joining the same union. Everyone looks the same. Many women have their color so extremely lightened there isn’t any color left in their hair shaft. Unfortunately, the majority have very dry and usually unhealthy. Something tells me you do not want to go in that direction.
It is important to know that if you are comparing yourself to others? If so, you aren’t being fair to yourself. What is good for them may not be good for you. If God made you a banana, don’t try to be an apple. But, you can be the best looking banana in the whole bunch.
What about your age? Have you already been covering up your gray with a light blonde? One mega mistake anolder woman can make is to cover up that gray with a lighter blonde. There isn’t any mystery to it and everyone knows exactly what you are doing. Instead, put some color into that blonde if you want to cover your gray up. Allow your colorist to put a dab of warmth into that blonde instead of any pale yellow. Besides, by now you are in need of color on your cheeks. The warm blonde or golden blonde will definitely help you out.
Another big mistake many older women make in covering up their gray is to just foil over the gray. This looks like your gray is “yellowing.” This does not look like the sun has turned your gray into a sunny blonde. What you could do is to find a warm golden blonde/brown color and cover the whole hair with it. As it fades in the places where you are gray will look very golden. You will automatically have at least two different shades without the problems and expense of foils. Then, you are doing more depositing instead of lifting which is what you need.
It is a good idea to go lighter when you are more “mature.” It takes away any harshness that has been added through the trials of your years. Lightness can bring a lightheartedness and warmth to your face. Sometimes, there is a graying process in our faces as we age, this is when we really need the warmth to help add blush to our cheeks and make our eyes seem much more colorful. One thing to remember though, pale blonde is just like gray and will not add anything to your face or eyes.
Some of the best colors are developed over the process of time. For example: if you have dark hair that is touching your shoulders and can see the gray coming in or are already aware of your long streaks of gray and have decided on foils. You can begin with adding only two colors at a time. Add a light warm blonde and a deep fiery red. I say the rich red because this color will fade into a gorgeous rich caramel within one to two months. With about 4 foils over a period of one-two years, you will have a totally rich outstanding color to your hair. There are many options to going blonde and most of the time, blonde doesn’t look best or natural when it stands alone.
One of the best things to determine is not only if the color blonde is for you; but are you ready for a new cut as well? Just going into a reputable salon and having that coveted blonde color will not be enough. One of the smartest and most sophisticated looks I’ve seen on blondes is when they wear a short bob. One that is clipped high to medium in the back with small layers just fluffed over it that moves up into the crown. The sides cover only half of the ears; while the top is much longer and flows onto the sides. This is a very chic, smart look for a blonde. Even if you are a bit heavy, this look will still look better on you instead of long hair flowing down your back. So, when your mind is made up and you walk into that salon, remember to get the whole make-over. Many of the better salons wouldn’t dream of giving you just a color and not a style as well.
Consider the cost in more ways than money. I’ll be touching on the high maintenance that factor into being a blonde in "She’s a High Maintenance Gal." It is my hope this will help out with your decisions.
As you reflect upon good knowledge and information, you will be saved from a world of heartaches, misfortune and trouble with your hair.
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